Passaris calls out Kenyans shaming ageing women
By Kiprono Keileb, October 7, 2025Nairobi Woman Representative Esther Passaris has called on society to rethink the way it views ageing, especially for women, as she celebrates her 61st birthday this month.
In a heartfelt post shared on her X account on Tuesday, October 7, 2025, Nairobi Woman Representative Esther Passaris spoke candidly about the double standards women face regarding age and appearance.
She reflected on how society often judges men and women more harshly as they grow older. Passaris noted that these pressures can affect women’s confidence and self-worth, urging society to embrace ageing as a sign of wisdom and experience rather than a flaw..
“Being called Shosh isn’t an insult. It means I’ve lived, loved, fought, and thrived through seasons many won’t reach,” she wrote.
She highlighted the stark contrast between how men and women are treated as they age. “Men get called Mzee and earn respect. Women get called Shosh and get mocked. Let’s change that,” she added, urging society to embrace ageing as a natural and honourable process for everyone.
Passaris also shared a personal message of gratitude and joy. “Growing old is a blessing, not a curse. I turn 61 this month. I feel amazing, I look great, and I thank God for every breath,” she said, emphasising the importance of celebrating life at every stage.
Her message resonates strongly with many women who face societal pressures to remain youthful, while men are celebrated for reaching older age. Passaris’s words are not only a personal declaration but also a public reminder that longevity is a privilege, and ageing should be embraced with dignity and pride.
“May you live long enough to say the same,” she concluded, encouraging others to honour their own journey and achievements as they grow older.
Passaris’s post comes at a time when conversations around gender respect are becoming a topic in the town. Her message is a reminder about how society can better celebrate the contributions and wisdom of older men and women, challenging outdated stereotypes that have long influenced public perception.