When news about a love triangle that ended up with one guy dead spread, I was an angry woman. Angry, not because the victim was my sponsor, but because I’ve seen men consumed by the idea of ‘their’ woman with another man. Just the thought of it drives them crazy with anger— green-eyed monsters if you like.

Any man suspected to make moves on his Fiona is confronted and warned against pulling any more moves. The girl’s phone is tapped just so to keep track of ‘their’ woman.

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It was suspicion marked with empty threats before. Now they’ve done it. They’ve made real their threats, they’ve shot the other man, he’s gone. Now what? Utter most nonsense, is what this is. A complete waste of bullets and energy that pulled that trigger. At the very best, this was a demonstration of an intellectual dwarf. Based on what again? The misguided idea that she was his. Just because no one told him, she is never yours, it’s just your turn.

See, if a woman wants to cheat she will. Women cheat and love affectionately at the same time, I mean what did you think multitasking meant anyway?

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Any decent looking woman is ever chased by suitors, all attempting to win her heart. They’re chatting her up on WhatsApp, Facebook and any social media forum you can think about. They street flirt her, talk to her at the bar and are busy being sweet and extra nice to her in the office. She’s one phone call, one WhatsApp call, one video chat, one message, one inbox, one wink away from hooking up with someone else.

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That women find other men attractive is a no brainer. Until you marry her, but even then you still don’t own her. You don’t and can’t control her feelings. Her feelings are open to change and she has every right to change her mind, yes just like you.

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So stop sweating. Why would you kill for someone you have no control over, why waste your emotional energy and your life on a semi-permanent feature in your life, it just beats logic. But do this aye! When it’s your turn, just set boundaries and if I cross that line, or whatever it is you put, pull the kill switch. End it. No argument.

No discussion. No second chance. No hesitation. Do it with zeal. Don’t take extreme measures to ensure her fidelity, just hold on loosely knowing it’s just your turn. Hop on the ride and just enjoy it while it lasts!

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