Women shouldn’t suffer to support successful union
By Surjit Singh Flora, September 11, 2024
Marriage, traditionally idealised as a union of love and respect, has historically required women to prioritise their partners’ interests over their own. This silent suffering of women should not underpin successful marriages.
Women have long endured mistreatment and relegation to domestic duties, leading to feelings of loneliness and frustration. Even in modern times, studies show that women undertake more emotional and domestic work than men, even when both partners work full-time.
Society often overlooks the abuse and exploitation of women, viewing it as normal. This patriarchal thinking is reflected in everyday situations, such as children respecting fathers more than mothers.
Rising divorce rates worldwide are partly attributed to women’s increasing independence and changing societal views. However, women face greater public scrutiny when ending unhappy relationships.
While a long-lasting marriage might be perceived as successful, true success requires mutual support and respect. Women’s independence should not cause marital problems, and society should allow women to speak up rather than suffer silently.