With Waithera Otieno

It all starts with the eyes. When someone looks at you, what do they see? If you are a lady and you look happy, you are more attractive to men, and less attractive if you show pride.

If you are a man, you will look more attractive to women if you display pride compared to if you show happiness.

Someone may also fall in love with you if you look like his or her parent of the opposite sex. 

If you stare into each other’s eyes for two minutes, there is an increase in feelings of passion, love and affection towards the other person.

Long periods of eye contact can make you feel more connected to someone even if you hadn’t met him or her before.

If you take care of your looks and body, and appear to be younger than your real age, you are considered more attractive.

If as a man, you look similar to her current or past partner, she is more likely to fall in love with you. Ladies who wear red appear more attractive than those who were other colours.

If you share similarities in personality and like the same things and experiences with the said person, they are more likely to fall in love with you.

When a person discovers that you have similar values, similar hobbies and if you can work well together on projects, this increases the chances of love brewing between the two of you.

Your body language also matters. If you stand and sit in an open body posture, meaning that you don’t cross your arms in front of your body, you are more likely to appear more lovable.

When speaking, if you use a lot of gestures, your date is more likely to want to see you again.